He spends time with you, and then goes home to play Daddy. It seems so obvious, yet every couple of days, there’s an email from a woman telling me how a married guy is playing them.
It’s always the same promises, and these women are deep into this thing. It’s just a fact, and there’s nothing you can do about it. If he was truly in love with you, he’d be planning his escape to you as we speak.
He has a wife, he has children, and he has commitments.
His family will always come first, and that includes his wife. The beginning of an affair is romantic and naughty at the same time.
Some emails have come from women who have been “involved” with these men for months, sometimes even years. It doesn’t matter how good the sex he gets from you is either. You see all these words and feelings he describes to you are just as much fantasy to him as they are to you. I’m sorry if that sounds harsh, but someone needs to make you women see what’s really going on in this situation.
He’s lost the romance and spark he had at the beginning of his marriage, and you’re giving it to him. When a man is serious about a woman, he can’t stand being away from her. I feel for you, and I want you to find an amazing man of your own, not for you to take another woman’s, or for a man to treat you like a piece of meat. why would any woman do that to another woman's family - that's just garbage behavior.
sometimes things do not work out, in which case you take the high road, try to fix the problems in your marriage, and end things maturely if neccessary. his family will never respect you and you will never respect yourself. Why would you want to be with a man that oes around his own wife and kids backs to be with anothernwoman?
Sounds like he wants to have his cake and eat it too.
Don't be that person, that women that would brake up a family. Plus if he really love you, he will leave his wife and still be a father and then come back to you.
besides, how much respect do you really have for him for doing this to his family in the first place?
Perhaps the best advice you can give someone about having a relationship with a married man is telling her not to even start. As my friend Jenna* told me, "You can't help who you fall in love with.
The love of your life just might be a married man." Being part of any couple can be challenging and unpredictable, as we all know.
The love affair with the married man starts with a man who married for the wrong reasons and thus never truly felt fulfilled in his commitment to the wife.
They probably have kids together and that is the only bond they share.