The really interesting thing about all of these narratives, is they came from people who consider themselves to be conscious singles.
Many of them used niche dating sites for people who are green, spiritual, or want to experience relationships on a deeper level.
thoughtful and not addicted to any substance other than me or coffee. I like this site and I feel great that I was able to participate in this way. To get serious results, one may need to make an investment in themselves for an ultimate transformation.By Guest Writer Marcello Rollando I am in my fifties and I have been dating for the last 5 years. My gay friends say that Gay dating is not like It used to be especially now that we are all older. I wrote this article as a way of giving back to the community that I love. There definitely is a learning curve to dating after 40.You must make a list of the qualities you’d like to find in the people you want to date . Many of us at our age are driven by a deep knowing that we were born for a certain reason.What are the non-negotiables for you in a relationship? Maybe, you feel that your life is not totally fulfilled yet , and you have decided that you don’t want to waste your time anymore.More often, though, there were tales of extraordinarily dehumanizing behavior that were heartbreaking to hear.One of my friends found who she thought was her perfect man, only to discover six months later that he lied about his name and age, and was married to a woman who was about to have his child.After being out of the dating game for 15 years, I found myself single at 45.Once I got over the shock and awe of being back in the dating pool, I talked to friends about what it was like to date online.Forty may be the new 30, but considering the misconceptions about women's sexuality and desirability after a "certain age," you'd think 40 was the new 80!Whether you blame advertising portrayals of what's "sexy" (Victoria's Secret models, anyone?