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We all have to help each other which is what we women are great at doing.If youre dating a man who always seems to keep his distance, has never opened up to you or haseven admitted that he has a problem with trusting women, it can make the relationship hard.There is no need to also bring the subject "where is this going" or "are we exclusive?" if he has said it once that he wasn't ready for relationship. The less you are attached and act eager, the safer he feels and the more he wants to come closer and spend more time with you.It's a recipe for drama and heartache when you assume a role of a girlfriend when he himself clearly hasn't used that word to describe you.

But isn't falling for people who aren't quite right for you just … "If women are looking for a long-term commitment, they might have to date a lot of guys first before they find one who's in the same place," points out Joanne Davila, Ph D, a professor of clinical psychology at Stony Brook University who studies healthy relationship skills and is coauthor of .

"My therapist thinks I'm only attracted to emotionally unavailable men," she told me afterward.

This pissed me off, because people used to suggest that to me too, judgmentally, like I was broken and masochistically handpicking guys who'd poke at my wounds. When really, my friend isn't single because she was attracted to two men who weren't ready to commit to her.

Before you label him emotionally unavailable though, lets be sure first.

I have listed 12 signs that may mean he is emotionally unavailable.

While I have personally never dated a man who was emotionally unavailable, one of my closest friends has and I remember the emotional roller coaster she went through.

I want to share this journey she went through with you so that you can identify whether your man is emotionally unavailable and if so, what you should do.

It also doesn’t mean we’ve lost the ability to perceive attractiveness and beauty and it most definitely doesn’t mean we’re no longer interested in sex.

We will want all of those things, and we’re still going to work toward getting all of those things. Maybe it was our overt actions (not claiming you as a girlfriend). Maybe it was our actual words (I’m not looking for anything serious right now), but you didn’t pay attention.

One of the main things that my friend learnt while dating her man was that she had to let him come to her and not try and force him to open up about his emotions.​If you try and force him to talk about his feelings or get him to come closer to you, it could have the complete opposite effect and push him further away.

He may even start to resent you because of the pressure you are putting on him.​​In today's blog post, I am going to go through the signs to determine whether your man is emotionally unavailable, what you should do if he is emotionally unavailable and how to differentiate between him being emotionally unavailable and simply not being interested (hate to say it).​If you are reading this blog post then I am guessing you are unfortunately having problems in your relationship and you believe your man may be emotionally unavailable.

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