Dating how to play it cool

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Just like it’s hard for a guy to drum up the courage to approach you and risk rejection, it’s equally scary for you to put yourself “out there” and not get anything in return.

Here’s what I want you to do: for the next week, go out into the world and behave AS IF every man you meet will likely turn out to be a good guy…even your Mr. That means that instead of playing it safe, you become curious and genuinely interested in the men you come in contact with.

I did once but he didn't really make any attempt to keep the conversation going so now I just wait for him to initiate contact. Or maybe he’s just making you think that but really hitting the town with a bunch of other gals he’s picked up.Dating anyone new can be a tricky thing because you really don’t know them just yet.Ah, so maybe your new man has taken one from the old playbook.He’s decided that in order to catch your interest, he’s got to play hard to get.After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads. Ok, so I've been seeing this guy for like a month and he is sooooooooooooo effing confusing. Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Showing just enough interest to keep you feeling good about him but keeping himself at enough of a distance to show less availability and (in some cases) seem more attractive. Some forums can only be seen by registered members. As movies like have illustrated, building a relationship tends to be complicated. I say “over-stalk” because we are all guilty of Facebook creeping to a certain degree.To simplify things, I've compiled this list, based on observations and real life experiences people have shared with me. The trick is not going so over-the-top as to make it obvious. But there are too many cringe-worthy stories of guys and girls alike crossing the line from friendly to obsessed to leave it off the list.

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