Dating what does he think

So she becomes too available, too eager, and too invested in where this is all going.

Alison Armstrong specializes in helping women understand how men think.

The best dating tips are to keep things like hearted and breezy, and remember for every time you talk about yourself, you should also be asking him about himself as well.

It’s also good to steer clear of work or family related topics; these can sometimes be a little heavy for first date conversation.

You can be making a total mistake, but as long as you're confident, it will turn out okay. It's peaceful to lie in someone's arms in the dark with great music or even the low buzz of the TV (although that tends to distract me) in the background.

Ladies, have you ever wondered what guys think about on a first date?

It could be anything from what his mother will think of you to whether you’re the type to be high maintenance.

It's nice to hear nothing but your lover's breath against the backdrop of the evening or early morning.

It's peaceful to lie in someone's arms in the dark with great music or even the low buzz of the TV (although that tends to distract me) in the background.

He could even be wondering whether you’re interested in him at all.

Here are some useful dating tips to help you know what might be running through his head, and what you could do to make things go smoothly.

They had a great couple of first dates, the guy kept asking her back out, she got her hopes up, and then the guy stopped initiating anything.

If this has happened to you, you know how disappointing it can be.

On a first date, both of you are looking for clues as to each other’s conversation styles.

Be conscious of how much of the conversation is focused and lead by you; If you’re not getting the balance right between talking and listening, the chances are he’s wondering if he should jump in and say more, or if you’re going to turn out to be someone who’s too absorbed in themselves to notice.

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